By Effat Saleh · Founder of islamtics · Sources: Jami at-Tirmidhi 2378, Sahih al-Bukhari 5534, Quran 49:10, 43:67, 18:28 · Last updated
Islam treats friendship as a faith matter, not a casual one. The Prophet ﷺ said: “A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends” (Jami at-Tirmidhi 2378, hasan). This page collects 25+ Islamic friendship quotes from the Quran and authentic hadith, with the foundational hadith and verses explained for those choosing companions deliberately.
Below: how Islam defines friendship (sadaqah and ukhuwwah), the canonical hadith on choosing friends, the qualities of a righteous Muslim friend, the full quote collection, the model of the Prophet ﷺ and Abu Bakr (RA), and a warning on the danger of bad company. With sunnah.com citations.
Table of Contents
What Islam teaches about friendship (Sadaqah & Ukhuwwah)
Two Arabic words frame friendship in Islam:
- Sadaqah (صَدَاقَة) — the bond of personal friendship, rooted in sidq (truthfulness). True friends speak truth to each other.
- Ukhuwwah (أُخُوَّة) — brotherhood/sisterhood in faith, the wider bond uniting all believers, regardless of personal closeness.
“The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers and fear Allah that you may receive mercy.”
— Surah Al-Hujurat 49:10
Islam permits and encourages friendship with non-Muslims in matters of kindness, neighborly conduct, and justice (Quran 60:8). What Islam reserves — the inner circle of wilayah, the spiritually intimate companion — is for those who strengthen your iman, not erode it.
Hadith on choosing your friends wisely
“A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.”
— Jami at-Tirmidhi 2378 (hasan)
“The example of a good companion and a bad one is like that of the perfume seller and the blacksmith’s bellows. From the perfume seller, you will either buy perfume, or enjoy its fragrance. As for the blacksmith’s bellows, it will either burn your clothes, or you will get a bad smell from it.”
— Sahih al-Bukhari 5534, Sahih Muslim 2628
The Prophet ﷺ also promised: “Two people who love each other for Allah’s sake will be under the shade of His Throne on the Day when there is no shade except His” (Sahih al-Bukhari 660). Friendship for Allah’s sake is a deed that lifts you on the Day of Judgment.
Qualities of a righteous Muslim friend
- Their presence reminds you of Allah. Quran 18:28 commands: “Keep yourself patient with those who call upon their Lord morning and evening, seeking His countenance.”
- Their actions remind you of the akhirah. A friend whose habits pull you toward salah, sadaqah, and remembrance is a mercy from Allah.
- Their knowledge increases your knowledge. The Prophet ﷺ said sitting with the righteous is like sitting with the perfume seller.
- They keep your trust. They cover your faults rather than expose them — “Whoever covers a Muslim’s fault, Allah covers his on the Day of Judgment” (Sahih Muslim 2580).
- They make dua for you in your absence. Sahih Muslim 2733: an angel says “Ameen, and the same to you” for the dua a Muslim makes for his absent brother.
Islamic friendship quotes from Quran & Sunnah
Islamic Friendship Quotes
A true friend is a positive influence who brings you close to Allah
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When you feel low or sad look around you. Who are your friends? Surround yourself with those who remind you of Allah and become happy.
A good Friends cares about your relationship with Allah
There is no better friend than a friend who reminds you to pray, reminds you of Allah, and increases your imaan.
life is not about the Quantity of friends you have. it is about the quality of friends you have
Who is more beautiful than the friend who reminds you of Allah every time you talk to them
Alhamdulilah for friends that constantly remind you of Allah.
Only befriend the one who helps you remember Allah
‘When love is for the sake of Allah, it never dies, continues till Jannah.’
“When you find a friend who reminds you of Allah”, be sure to hold on to them, do not leave them, and keep them close to you. MUSLIM HUB
if you have: a Family that loves you, a Few Good Friends, Food on your table & a roof over your head. You are Richer than you think.
The company you keep defines you and your level of Faith, Choose your friends wisely.
There is nothing more beautiful than a friend who helps you practice your deen. Be that kind of friend.
A Friend in Deen is a Friend indeed
True friends help each other in Deen, just because they want to be neighbors in Jannah.
Best Friends are true gifts from Allah
Alhamdulillah for our friendship
Sit with those who constantly repent, for they have the softest hearts.
Bring your friends closer to Allah, so that you can be with them again in Jannah.
Those who love us will correct us.
Stay with people who fear Allah, discuss what the Quran says or try to follow the righteous path as we mirror our friends.
The Prophet ﷺ and Abu Bakr (RA): the model friendship
If Islam has a single human picture of friendship, it is the bond between the Prophet ﷺ and Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (RA). When the Prophet ﷺ migrated from Makkah to Madinah, Abu Bakr was the only companion in the Cave of Thawr — preserved forever in the Quran as “the second of two” (Surah At-Tawbah 9:40).
“If I were to take a khalil (intimate friend) other than my Lord, I would have taken Abu Bakr, but he is my brother and companion in Islam.”
— Sahih al-Bukhari 466
Their friendship had four marks worth imitating: truthfulness (Abu Bakr was named as-Siddiq, the Truthful), sacrifice (he gave his entire wealth in the Tabuk expedition), defense in absence (he never tolerated slander against the Prophet ﷺ), and support in dua (the two prayed together through every hardship of the early da’wah).
Warning: the danger of bad company
“Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous.”
— Surah Az-Zukhruf 43:67
Surah Al-Furqan 25:27–29 records the regret of one led astray by a misguided companion: “Woe to me! I wish I had not taken so-and-so as a friend. He led me away from the remembrance after it had come to me.” The Quran does not soften the warning — the wrong friend can pull you off the path even when your intention was right.
The practical test: after spending an hour with this person, are you closer to Allah or further from Him? If consistently further, the friendship needs distance — not enmity, but the careful distance the Prophet ﷺ kept from people whose company endangered his deen.
What does Islam say about friendship?
Islam considers friendship a sacred bond (sadaqah and ukhuwwah) tested by piety. The Prophet ⍔ said a person follows the religion of his close friend (Jami at-Tirmidhi 2378), so righteous companionship is treated as a faith matter, not a casual one. Quran 49:10 calls all believers brothers and commands kindness, settlement of disputes, and mercy among them.
What is the hadith about choosing friends?
‘A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends’ (Jami at-Tirmidhi 2378, hasan). The Prophet ⍔ also gave the perfume seller / blacksmith simile in Sahih al-Bukhari 5534 / Sahih Muslim 2628 — the good friend leaves you fragrant; the bad friend leaves you scorched.
What does the Quran say about bad friends?
Surah Az-Zukhruf 43:67: ‘Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous.’ Surah Al-Furqan 25:27-29 records the regret of one led astray by a misguided companion. Surah Al-Kahf 18:28 commands keeping company with those who remember Allah morning and evening.
Who was Prophet Muhammad’s ⍔ best friend?
Abu Bakr as-Siddiq (RA). The Prophet ⍔ said: ‘If I were to take a khalil (intimate friend) other than my Lord, I would have taken Abu Bakr’ (Sahih al-Bukhari 466). They are referenced together in Quran 9:40 as ‘the second of two’ during the Hijrah and the Cave of Thawr.
Can a Muslim be friends with non-Muslims?
Yes — Islam permits kindness, justice, and good neighborly conduct with non-Muslims (Quran 60:8). Close spiritual companionship (wilayah), however, is reserved for those who strengthen one’s iman (Quran 5:51, 18:28). The distinction is between general friendship (allowed and encouraged) and inner-circle spiritual reliance (reserved for the believing).
How do you make friends for the sake of Allah?
Choose companions whose presence reminds you of Allah, intend the friendship for His sake, make du’a for them in their absence (an angel says ‘Ameen, and the same to you’ — Sahih Muslim 2733). The Prophet ⍔ said two who love each other for Allah’s sake will be under the shade of His Throne on Judgment Day (Sahih al-Bukhari 660).
Choose your friends the way you choose your aqeedah — deliberately, prayerfully, with the akhirah in view. Save the quote that matches the friend you want to become, and send it to the friend who is already pulling you toward Allah. May Allah unite us with our righteous companions in Jannah. Ameen.
