Musnad Ahmad Hadith 21309

Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to speak harshly to Amir Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him), about which Amir Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) complained in the presence of Ubadah bin Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him), Amr bin Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), and Umm Haram (may Allah be pleased with her), and said: Just as he has had the companionship of the Noble Prophet (ﷺ), you people have also had this honor, and just as he has seen the Noble Prophet (ﷺ), you have also seen him. If you people consider it appropriate, then speak to him. They called Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him). When he arrived, the mentioned individuals spoke with him. He said: O Abu al-Waleed! You accepted Islam before me, you are greater than me in age and virtue, I encourage you to avoid such gatherings. And O Abu Darda! You accepted Islam when the time of the Noble Prophet’s (ﷺ) passing was near, you are a good Muslim. And O Amr bin Aas! I have performed jihad with you alongside the Noble Prophet (ﷺ). And O Umm Haram! You are a woman, and your intellect is also that of a woman, do not get involved in this matter. Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him), seeing this situation, said: It is settled that from today onwards, I will not sit in such gatherings.