Musnad Ahmad Hadith 3077

When 'Uthman bin Maz'oon died, his wife said: Congratulations to you of Paradise, O Ibn Maz'oon. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) looked angrily at her and said to her. How do you know? I am the Messenger of Allah and I do not know what will happen to me. She said: O Messenger of Allah, he was your knight and your companion! That distressed the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) when he said that about ‘Uthman, who was one of the best of them, until Ruqayyah the daughter of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) died, and he said: "Join the good one who went ahead of us, ‘Uthman bin Maz'oon.” The women wept and ‘Umar started striking them with his whip. The Prophet (ﷺ) said to ‘Umar: "Let them weep, but beware of the wailing of the Shaitan." Then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Whatever comes from the heart and the eye is from Allah and is a sign as compassion, but whatever comes from the hand and the tongue is from the Shaitan.” The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) sat at the edge of the grave, with Fatimah weeping by his side, and the Prophet (ﷺ) started to wipe Fatimah's eyes with his garment, out of compassion towards her.